Every single guy, apart from the gay ones, wants to know how to drive a women wild in bed. It used to be that men could be selfish in the sack, not worried about their performance just as long as they got what they wanted. Men of yore thought that just rutting away on top of a girl for 3 minutes would be good enough to satisfy her, and then they would go and brag to their buddies about how great they are.
Let Her Lead
If you are working out how to please your girl, then obviously you need a teacher, and what better teacher than her. She will know the best way around her body and any enlightened 21st-century girl will know exactly how to get herself off. Listen to her and let her guide you around. If she wants it slower, then go slower. Quicker, then speed up. The more you listen then the more you’ll learn and the better the sex will be for the both of you.
In addition, make sure that you let her take the lead entirely some nights. Let her climb on top and ride you like a cowgirl and you’ll be sure to learn exactly what she wants, and where she wants it.
Having said that, the opposite is also true. Once you have a good idea of what she wants, make sure you give it to her, rather than her taking it. Most women have domination fantasies of one type of other, and they like the idea, in a safe environment, or a guy taking complete control and giving her a good seeing to. She wants to be held down and for you to use her, just as long as you are making it as exciting for her as it is for you.
Another option, and certainly something that a lot of women really enjoy, is to slow everything down. Speed often works well for men, whether they are driving on the freeway at 100 mph, or jumping up and down on top of a lady at the speed of light. Men like things to be done quickly, but that almost never works for women.
A great way to turn a regular sex night into one she will remember forever is to slow everything down. Take in every part of her body. Kiss, caress, and touch her all over before you go anywhere near anything sexual. Engage her in a deep, passionate kiss while your hands roam. The idea is to take her to a peak of sexual excitement even before you touch her naught bits. And then when you do get to those, again start slowly. Take her breathing and moaning and movement as a guide to where you should be and how fast you should be going. As she speeds up, then so to can you, until you are both going like the clappers and enjoying every moment.
Quick And Dirty
And here is the opposite again. Sometimes you just need to fuck her. Take her by surprise, up against the table or in the kitchen and just rut like rabbits. Pull her panties to one side and stick it in and get on with it. The sheer excitement of such an activity will take her from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds so it doesn’t matter that it is over in little time. This kind of wanton abandonment really allows her, and you, to get back to your primitive urges.
Go On Down
If this move is not in your playbook by now, then where have you been boy? The best way to turn a girl on, and the way to get her coming back for more, is to get you mouth between her legs. The dexterity of your tongue means that it can reach places you dick can’t go, and texture, warmth, and wetness make it feel better for her than your fingers. So always make sure you take a visit down there whenever you can to really get her going.